Thursday, July 2, 2015

Reasons Why You Can't Sleep On A Plane

I used to be able to sleep anywhere.
And I could sleep easily on airplanes. 
Now? Not so much. In fact lately I have a really hard time sleeping on planes, especially long haul, international flights.
In a few weeks time I have some really crazy trans-world flights happening, that seriously require a situation that involves me, sleeping.

So I was looking around to see if I could find some new advice, and I found this great article on AirfareWatchdog.com

This Is Why You Can't Sleep on the Plane

By Avital Andrews

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image via Huffington Post

When boarding a plane, you have the purest of intentions: You're going to use this rare empty stretch of time to catch up on much-needed sleep. You'll land at your destination bright-eyed, bushy-tailed, and ready to take on the world!
But things aren't ever that simple, are they? In reality, you end up doing all the things that keep you from floating into dreamland. By the time you deplane, you're tired, disheveled, and your carefully planned trip is off to a shaky start.
To prevent thwarting yet another vacation or business meeting because you're overtired, figure out what you're doing that's making it difficult to sleep—and cut it out. Whether your goal is to squeeze in a catnap during a quick commuter flight or a half dozen REM cycles on a red-eye, these are all the ways you might be sabotaging your mile-high shuteye.
You Stare at a Screen
Who among us hasn't gone down the social-media or Web-surfing rabbit hole when we should be resting our eyes and brain? It's an easy mistake to make, but a mistake nonetheless, especially considering that smartphone, tablet, and laptop screens emit a bluish hue that messes with your body's natural sleep hormones.
"Essentially what blue light does is interfere with melatonin production in our brains," says Shelby Harris, the director of behavioral sleep medicine at New York's Montefiore Health System. "Melatonin makes us sleepy," she adds, "but needs darkness to work. And blue light reduces melatonin even more than plain old full-spectrum white light."
If you can't slow down your thoughts unaided, get into a paper book (or Kindle e-reader) instead. "Reading on an airplane is one of the best possible rituals you can do to help you fall asleep," says Ben Michaelis, a clinical psychologist and wellness author. "It helps put your mind at ease, making you feel relaxed and distanced from the hustle and bustle of traveling."
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You Booze Before You Snooze
Sure, having a stewardess-stirred cocktail might make you nod off quicker (thanks, adenosine). But don't fool yourself into thinking that a nightcap will help you sleep better. In fact, dozens of studies have confirmed that any form of alcohol consumed within an hour before shuteye will dehydrate you, leave you groggy when you wake, exaggerate jetlag, and, worst of all, disrupt your overall sleeping pattern, since you get fewer REM cycles during alcohol-induced sleep. (Besides, you'll have to get up to pee.)
You know yourself best, of course, but if you're like most humans, liquor is pretty much guaranteed to mess up your circadian rhythm so that you won't sleep as long and you won't get much real rest from the sleep that you do get.
You Drink Coffee
As tempting as a steaming cup of joe might sound as the flight attendant asks for your drink order, especially if that roasted-bean smell is wafting through the cabin, resist the urge if your goal is to sleep.
The fact that coffee keeps you awake hardly needs expanding upon (a typical eight-ounce cup packs 95 milligrams of caffeine), but it's astounding how many passengers order it even if they intend to doze. Don't do that.
Instead, request room-temperature water, herbal tea, or warm milk. Beware the airlines' go-to Lipton tea, though—a bag steeped in eight ounces of water delivers 55 milligrams of caffeine. Steer clear of Coca-Cola and chocolate, too, both of which will buzz you up on caffeine and sugar.
You Pick the Wrong Seat
If you've ever been stuck in the middle seat between two strangers, you know the near impossibility of achieving sleep status there. And if you're in the aisle, you'll get awoken whenever your row mates need to visit the loo or the flight attendants need to deliver service. Your most nap-optimal option, then, is always the window seat. You've got the wall to lean against, the shade to close, and the luxury of being left mostly alone.
Book your window seat when making your flight reservation. Or if you're flying an airline like Southwest whose seats are first-come, first-served, set your alarm for as soon as you can check in online. The earlier you check in, the earlier you can board the plane—and the likelier you are to nab a window seat.
As for other seat-related factors, Clint Johnston, founder of Triphackr.com, recommends using SeatGuru to suss out your most comfortable spot: "A seat away from the lavatory and the galley is a must," he says.
Wherever you end up sitting, buckle your seat belt atop your blanket or jacket so that the flight staff won't need to wake you to confirm that you're safe.
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You Come Unequipped
Don't expect to be able to sleep well if you don't bring the proper equipment. "Before your flight, pack a small sleep kit and toss it into your carry-on," recommends Alanna McGinn, a certified sleep expert and the founder of the Good Night Sleep Site. "Earplugs and an eye mask can help minimize distractions and let you drift off a little easier," she adds.
The other experts I surveyed for this piece recommend bringing noise-canceling headphones, thick socks, a neck pillow (some prefer to use it under the chin instead of behind the neck), a blanket, a toothbrush and toothpaste, and your contact case and solution if needed. If you don't have an eye mask, sunglasses work in a pinch and can double as a do-not-disturb sign. 
If you know they work for you, you can take sleeping pills—Ambien is popular—or better yet, a natural sleep aid like melatonin or magnesium citrate powder. "Magnesium is an anti-stress mineral and sleep aid that will help you relax and fall asleep," says Carolyn Dean, a women's health expert. "You can take travel-size packets and pour one into your water bottle and sip throughout the flight," she adds.
You Don't Prep at the Airport
There are certain things you can do before you get on your flight that'll make your time in your seat more restful. First of all, go to bathroom before you board. Also, eat a normal-sized meal—not too big, not too small—and get to the airport with enough time to get through security so that you don't arrive at your gate flushed and stressed.
While you still have Wi-Fi, and before you put your phone on airplane mode, download a few relaxing songs and apps. Johnston recommends Sleep Machine, which, he says, "offers soothing sounds, like the forest, the ocean, or a campfire that you might prefer over blocking noise with earplugs." Roger Brinkley, CEO of Pac2Go, a travel-accessory company, swears by the Ambi Science Pure Sleep app:"It uses a combination of binaural and isochronic entrainment," he says. (That just means it plays two kinds of tones that get your brainwaves to calm down.) "Think of it as white noise on steroids."
Booking.com
You Don't Make Yourself Comfortable
There are so many little ways you can create your own comfort aboard an aircraft, yet most people don't do it. For maximum coziness, don't forget your pillow, take off your shoes, and slip on a pair of clean socks. If you need legroom, store as much as possible in the overhead bin; or, if you prefer a leg rest, use your carry-on to prop up your feet. A few travel experts recommend placing a pillow or your backpack on your open tray table for a comfortable place to rest your head, if you don't mind leaning forward.
The day of travel, don't wear anything constricting or stiff—except for compression socks or tights, if needed. Instead, dress yourself in clothes that are as loose and comfortable as possible without it looking like you're wearing pajamas. On a long-haul flight, consider bringing actual pajamas to change into after taking off.
"Another tip is to layer up," says Heather Richardson, a luxury travel advisor. "Cabins are always too hot or too cold, so make sure you can take off layers or put them on as required." And a jacket can double as a pillow if you roll it up.
The eternal question of whether to recline your seat remains as controversial as ever—but if no one's sitting behind you, or if that person is reclined, don't hesitate to lean on back.
Your Timing Is Off
Avoid scheduling flights for the time of day that you tend to be most awake and alert. Early-morning flights are great for this reason, so long as you don't have your usual cup of coffee. Otherwise, book a ticket that departs right before bedtime. Either way, the key is to board the plane tired. If that means you need to wake up extra-early that morning, or get in a hardcore workout during the day, do it.
"On short, transatlantic flights eastbound to Europe where flight times might be as little as six hours, the key in any class of service is to get to sleep right away," says Kyle Steward, who owns a travel agency called Trip Sherpa. "You will have a chance at five to six hours of sleep, but getting a head start is key."
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You Fly Coach
Yeah, we know, this isn't something most of us can control. But if you happen to have the money, miles, or charm to get up front, use it. For better chances of an impromptu upgrade, arrive at your gate early, dress sharply, and ask nicely. The worst they can say is no.
And if the flight staff ever asks for a volunteer to give up their economy-class seat to accommodate other passengers' needs, raise your hand—there's a decent chance they'll escort you into business or first.
So long as you don't indulge in the free champagne and chocolate, you'll have a much better chance at getting longer, higher quality sleep where you have more space around you, fewer people, and seats that basically turn into beds.
You Chat up Your Neighbor
On an airplane, even a friendly greeting can be misconstrued as a signal that the conversational door is open. And then, if you're seated next to a chatty Cathy (or a talkative Tom), you're at risk for an hours-long back and forth when what you really need to be doing is sleeping.
When acknowledging your seatmate, keep it quick and polite, then quickly put on headphones or an eye mask. To solidify your chances of silence, say something like, "Hey, if the flight attendant comes by to take drink orders, would you mind telling her I don't want to be woken up?" This'll send the loud-and-clear message—without having to outright say so—that you're not up for a gabfest.
Booking.com


Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Amal Clooney's Best Looks. Well, Some Of them Anyway....

Amal Clooney is sensational.

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In a world full of pretty women she stands out not just for being beautiful, but because she is also intriguing.
Preternaturally thin, she stands out in the fashion world not just because everything looks amazing on her long, lean body, but because she has an innate sense of style. 
Unlike your stereotypical fashonista cavorting glamorously around the world stage, Amal is incredibly accomplished. Brilliantly accomplished. 

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Funnily enough that fellow she married has had a big career too. He was considered at one time to be the sexiest man in the world. After a string of young, vacuous companions perennially at his side his brand was beginning to look a little lecherous and a little tarnished. But then he met and married Amal. For a moment she made him look good. 
And then she completely eclipsed him. She is so spectacular, not just because she is gorgeous, but because she is gorgeous and brilliant, and successful in a field that really matters. She specializes in international law, human rights and extradition.

Walking next to her he no longer looks like one of the biggest movie stars in the world, the top name on the marquee. 
Instead he looks like some funny little bloke who got super lucky and now gets to bask in the light that radiates from her star.

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This was going to be a fashion post about Amal's enduring relationship with Giambattista Valli, but the more I scrolled through images of her the more taken I was with her overall style.
So here is a look at some of Amal Clooney's best looks:

Amal At Night

Could she possibly look more gorgeous?? I love her in this Maison Margiela. Don't you think George looks like the sideshow? Amal definitely looks like the main event.

Amal in Maison Margiela

Sideshow George escorts Amal to the Met Gala in 2015.
He used to look so debonair in his tux, but now you barely notice him standing there in her shadow.
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Amal in Maison Margiela at Met Gala 2015
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Amal in Stella McCartney

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Amal in Alexander McQueen in NYC

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Amal in Giambattista Valli in NYC

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Amal in Florence

Amal Just Being Glamorous

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Amal in Stella McCartney in Venice


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Amal in Venice wearing Giambattista Valli Haute Couture

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Amal in Alexander McQueen

Amal In Summer Dresses

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Amal in London in Paule Ka pink dress

Amal's Work Clothes

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Amal in Camilla Bona

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Amal in Giambattista Valli suit, London

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Amal in NYC

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Amal in Oscar de la Renta at Heathrow Airport





Amal In Jeans

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Amal in J Brand leather jacket

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Amal in jeans and Giambattista Valli top


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Airport Amal
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Amal in Winter

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Amal wearing a Giambattista Valli coat

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Amal in Paule Ka coat
It has always seemed as though the girl with George has had to fight to keep him interested, to keep him coming back.
Now I think the tables have turned.
Don't you think he looks like he still can't quite believe he got her? And like he is going to stay on his toes and do whatever it takes to stay interesting so that he doesn't lose her?

Even in repose she looks like she is thinking interesting thoughts.

Good for you George!

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Tuesday, June 30, 2015

How To Be A Good Bridesmaid

How To Be A Good Bridesmaid.


At this point in my career I don't even know how many hundred weddings I have done.
Hundreds and hundreds of them.
In the midst of all the fun I always see what's going on, and I've learned a lot about what makes a good bridesmaid.
Here are 10 tips for how to be a good bridesmaid

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1. It's not your show.
A really good bridesmaid knows that today she is absolutely NOT the star of the show!
You need to defer to the bride, don't be an attention vampire, don't be the loudest girl in the room.
No matter what goes down, be chill.

2. Say Yes To The Dress.
Who cares what it looks like on you? Tomorrow you can wear something different. As for today, don't complain, don't make snippy comments about how it's not your style. Just roll with it. 

3. Be Makeup Cool.
Hopefully a good makeup artist has been hired for the big day, and is keeping all the bridesmaids looking beautiful. If you change out your lip color, draw on some big contour, or do something wacky with your eyebrows (ahem - Instagram) you will draw attention to yourself and take it away from the bride (and the other bridesmaids) and no doubt ruin every picture that you are in. Most of the time you will look stupid and vain.
Do your big makeup look tomorrow, but today just be chill.

4. Help Where You Can.
A good bridesmaid will be unobtrusively helpful. You can easily fix things, take care of potential problems, do simple things like get the bride a drink, make sure she has something to eat - essentially help her day flow smoothly. Just don't do it in a way that makes you look like you're seeking a pat on the back, or trying to outdo another bridesmaid.

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5. Keep The Mood Light And Fun.
A really great bridesmaid will keep the mood in the room light and fun, diffusing any girl-drama that is threatening to break through. The bride needs to remember this as her best day ever, and feel the love and support of her closest friends rather than remember the getting ready portion of her wedding day as being a mean gossip-fest.

Natori


6. Bring An Emergency Kit.                               
If there is no wedding planner onsite then bring a few bits and pieces in case something goes wrong. Tampax, safety pins, bobby pins, bandaids, Excedrin, Fashion Tape, Altoids - little things that can make a huge difference.

7. Only Be Positive.
Don't tell her her hair looks wrong or that her dress doesn't fit quite right. Even if they do.
She is probably already feeling vulnerable and this is not the time for some passive aggressive "I'm only telling you because I love you" nonsense.
Tell her she looks beautiful, draw attention away from anything that isn't quite right.
The biggest component of looking beautiful is feeling beautiful. If she feels gorgeous she will radiate gorgeous. No matter how amazing she looks, if she feels like she's not looking her best, then that is what she will project.

8. Don't Get Drunk.
You know your limit. Don't go past it.
The drunk bridesmaid lowers the tone of the event. And she gets immortalized in the wedding album with her half falling down up-do, bleary runny eyes and smeared lips.

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No matter how much fun you think you are when you're drunk, to everyone else you look stupid

9. Accept That The Maid Of Honor Is The Leader
Even if you can't stand her.
Don't get your nose out of joint, don't get into any passive aggressive power games, just smile and roll with it. 

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10. Have Fun.
And if you're not having fun, act as if you are.

Natori


Monday, June 29, 2015

What Is Ultherapy? ~ Beauty Tip Of The Week #18

What is Ultherapy?
The short answer? Just the best thing I have ever done.
I had Ultherapy about 2 weeks ago, and I am already seeing the most spectacular results, even though they said I wouldn't see anything for at least a month.

But I'm getting way ahead of myself. Here is the long answer:

Ultherapy is a miracle.


It is the only non invasive treatment that is FDA cleared to lift skin on the neck, under the chin and on the eyebrow. It is also approved to improve lines and wrinkles on the decolletage.
You have no down time, no redness, no bruising - nothing. It is amazing!


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Ultherapy before and after. Magic, no?















(By the way, none of these images are pictures of me.)

Before Ultherapy if you needed your neck tightened or lifted, if you maybe had a double chin or unattractive under-chin or jawline profile, or maybe your eyebrows needed lifting, the only option was to go under the knife. It was costly, there was a danger element involved - any time you have an elective surgery there is a risk, and on top of that we have all seen face-lifts gone wickedly wrong.

Ultherapy involves no cutting and stitching, no slicing out unwanted flesh, and no battered and bruised visage to wait out the healing process.
Ultherapy delivers focused ultrasound energy to the same foundation layer typically addressed by surgeons during plastic surgery, without cutting or disrupting the surface of the skin.
The energy initiates the body's natural response to stimulate the growth of fresh, new collagen and to strengthen weak collagen.
Some patients see an initial effect right after their treatment, but the real result happens over the coarse of 2 or 3 months as the new collagen builds, gradually lifting and tightening the skin on the face and neck, and smoothing the skin on the chest.

Unlike lasers and radio frequency therapies, Ultherapy bypasses the surface of the skin and delivers ultrasound energy at the optimal depth, temperature and precision. It also uses ultrasound imaging which allows your technician to see the layers of tissue they are treating, ensuring that energy is both delivered safely and to where it is most beneficial.
The technician draws a grid on the area she is working on and is able to direct the treatment to exactly where it is needed.

Unlike lasers and photo-facial treatments Ultherapy is a perfect treatment to have over the summer, because it is not photo-sensitive, the procedure does not affect the skin's surface and you have no down time.
Think of the treatment like the foundation of a house - it holds everything up and in place.


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Ultherapy before and after chin and jaw

How Did I Discover Ultherapy?
As a makeup artist I am always looking into ways for my clients to achieve balance in their faces, and to capture youth without looking like they have had surgery. For years now I have been taking clients, both local Arizonians as well as clients from California and Texas, even as far away as Calgary to see the amazing Dr Blume at the Blume Skin Centre in Scottsdale Arizona
Dr Blume and his clinical manager Sandra Caldwell take care of my celebrity clientele and my brides, and everyone in between. 
During visits there I started noticing everyone looking younger, and looking revitalized, and I also started noticing double chins disappearing and necks becoming smoother. Whatever was going on with the staff and the customers in the waiting room, I wanted in on the action!
My clients started having Ultherapy and I would see jawlines becoming crisper, collapsing brows lifting back up, and everyone looking sensational. I watched the progression of people's results over the course of several months, and found the results to be universally sensational.


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Ultherapy chin and neck before and after


How Long Does Ultherapy Last?
As with anything you do to your face, be it botox, fillers, lasers - any treatment, the result is 100% dependent on the skill of the technician performing the treatment. If your Ultherapy is performed by a master technician, like Sandra Caldwell of the 
Blume Skin Centre you can expect results to last up to 5 years if you are under 50, and 3 years if you are in your 50's

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Ultherapy before and after chin lift


Who Is Ultherapy For?
Ultherapy is not necessarily age specific.
It will lift skin, and especially when combined with fillers can replace or stall the need for a face lift. 
But it is also for people who are not looking for a facelift alternative.
Ultherapy is a fantastic option for anyone who has a double chin or a chin/jaw/neck profile that needs trimming or lifting.


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Ultherapy before and after under chin

Ultherapy is also an amazing option for anyone wanting a brow lift. That can be someone who as a part of the aging process has eyebrows that have dropped, or anyone who has a heavy brow that is creating excess skin folds in the upper eyelid. 
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Ultherapy before and afteer brow lift

Can Young People Have Ultherapy?
Yes they can. Ultherapy is not age specific.
For brides Ultherapy is a wonderful way to correct or enhance the jawline (think of all those profile photos!) and also to waken and revitalize the eye with a brow lift.


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Ultherapy before and after chin lift

How Do You Choose A Technician?
This is the single most important decision to make when choosing Ultherapy. 
Avoid Groupon deals (like the plague!) instead opting for a Certified Advanced Technician who can show you before and afters of numerous clients she has worked on. 
There are substantial costs involved for the office performing Ultherapy, so the only way to cut the price is to reduce the amount of energy the technician uses on a client, which in turn will give a marginal result.

I went to Sandra Caldwell, Clinical Manager at the 
Blume Skin Centre in Scottsdale Arizona. Not only is Sandra a Certified Advanced Therapist, but she has performed hundreds of treatments (including treatments on my clients) and her results are consistently amazing.

What Should You Watch Out For?
Watch out for cheap deals. This applies to anything you are having done to your face. I never see fabulous "bargain" botox or filler jobs, in fact discount facial injecting invariably makes up some of the very worst I see. Allowing for the fact that your results will last up to 5 years or more you want to make sure you are going to someone brilliant with a sharp eye for balance and aesthetic beauty.

How Many Treatments Do I Need?
This is a one time treatment. Depending on the area or areas you are having worked on the average treatment will be in the vicinity of an hour. If you are just having a brow lift you will need less time, a full face,neck and decolletage will take a little longer.


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Ultherapy before and after brow lift

What Does Ultherapy Cost?
The cost of Ultherapy depends on which areas you are having worked on.
A brow lift runs around $500, which means you will save a huge amount of money versus Botox brow lifting when you consider it will last you around 5 years!
A neck treatment should be around $1500, a full  face costs around $5000


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Ultherapy before and after chin and jawline


My Story

I didn't like the way my neck and jawline were looking. My jawline had lost it's crispness, and I felt that my neck was starting to look lined and fleshy. I was also noticing that my brow was dropping, causing the skin on my upper eyelid to look heavy. Which are both signs of having left our 30s.
It was made worse when a local Cosmetic Surgeon cornered me at a social event, telling me I absolutely had to have a brow lift done.
I was horrified!  
I talked to Sandra and Dr. Blume about it for months, going over the best options for me. We looked at the before and after pictures of other Blume Skin Centre clients who had had Ultherapy, but not being one to race into anything I still took my time to make the decision.
I saw a difference within a couple of days of the treatment. 
My neck immediately started looking firmer, smoother and tighter. My jawline is already starting to resemble it's former sharp self and although I never had a double chin, nor was I aware of excess flesh under my chin, the smoothing and firming of that area is sensational!
Everywhere I go people who know me are telling me I look revitalized. I am asked if I have been on vacation, if I have had extra sleep, if I am using a new eye cream. The subtle lifting of the brow area is taking away the heavier upper eyelid, making my eyes look bright and awakened. It's fabulous!
And I only had my Ulthrapy less than a month ago.


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Ultherapy before and after chin and neck (with awful lipliner)

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Ultherapy before and after chin and neck
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Ultherapy before and after brow lift

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Ultherapy before and after chin and neck

If you are thinking about having Ultherapy, and are either in Arizona, near Arizona or willing to travel to Arizona (well worthwhile - this is your face afterall!) call or go see the experts at the Blume Skin Centre. 

Blume Skin Centre
(480) 699-7999
8575 East Princess Drive, 
Suite 123
Scottsdale Arizona